Does She Like Me? The 7 (More) Signs

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There’s this cute guy/girl you’ve met at school/work/through friends. You two seem to get along really well together. They like you, but you’re not sure if they *like*like you.

If you’re a girl, we’ve already chat about this.

But then your male counterparts started asking the same question.
To all you guys, hoping to have won the heart of a beautiful maiden, here are some signs you should look for when trying to decide whether you’re right, or just another hopeful in her long list. ;)

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  1. The eyes: Have you noticed her eyes when she looks at you? What do you read? If things are going for you, you should be able to see an unmistakable glow of embarrassed happiness in there. If her eyes are unable to hold your gaze and flutters here and there as she talks to you, congratulations.
  2. The smile: If that was too confusing, there are easier giveaways you can watch out for. Those thousand splendid Suns for example. The unique smile she flashes you, not the book. This smile is not like the others. The next time you see a girl flashing you a custom light-up-the-whole-room smile, make no mistake – something is up. ;)
  3. The girly gossip: When she’s with her friends, she always finds some excuse to mention you every now and then.  They may not know “officially” that she has a crush on you, but practically everyone knows about it. ;)
  4. The diva: Suddenly she starts paying more attention to her appearance. Especially when she knows she’d meet you. But of course none of her newly acquired accessories adds nearly as much to her beauty as the glow of a new crush writ large on her face.
  5. The excitement: When she meets you she seems a bit confused. Like she doesn’t know what she’s saying. Mildly breathless. Mildly incoherent. Out-of-control excited but failing embarrassingly at hiding it.
  6. The stress: Have you ever met her just after you’d been talking and laughing with other girls? Did her face look like someone had died? Or like someone was about to die? Badly concealed green jealousy when you talk to other girls is one of the surest signs of a really BIG crush. ;)
  7. The hurt: Don’t call/ping/text her for a few days. If the reaction seems just a tad more intense than expected (i.e. starting with talking about how popular you are and ending in sniffles, possibly), there might be something just a tad more than friendship in her heart for you.

Yeah … yeah… I know…I know…

Some of you are nodding your head and saying, “My girlfriend never showed any of these signs.”

Exactly. That’s what the comment section is for. J

13 thoughts on “Does She Like Me? The 7 (More) Signs”

  1. I’m agree with first 3 Signs… eyes smile & girly gossip. These are valuable Signs to know what She thinks about a guy. I have my own personal experience. When she used to smile toward seeing me.

  2. Deja – vu …

    Just 1 doubt though (Point-6)…can it not happen that d girl could b very good at hiding her emotionz n not letting d negative emotionz in her (ego, jealousy etc) get displayed? It could b for any reason that she is hiding or she is a bit too experienced or really good at putting on a totally neutral face-like a diplomat…

    1. Of course it’s possible. But that would mean she’s already given up on you. :(
      When we fall for someone, whatever we might show on the outside – inside we want our crush to know that we’ve fallen for them. Girls might try to hide these feelings but some bit of it HAS TO seep through, otherwise she’s not THAT serious about you. ;)

  3. Appreciate d honest response… if girl iz interested whichever way she behaves, from within she would want d person 2 know it…dat she has fallen for him … ok, thanks

  4. Hey love in India…..
    I am Rajan from Rajkot
    I met a girl last week in collage and I like her very much, I have noticed her starring at me number of time(as I was doing the same of course ;) ) but unfortunetly could not talk to her. I don’t even know her name cause when I prepared myself for talking to her she was absent in the collage and now the collage is closed due to vacations and I can meet her now only after 2 months so I want to confirm it that she like me too sothat I can take next step..
    Plsss help me
    Early reply is expected…..
    Plss plsss plssss

  5. eyes movement deviation, blushing or pleasant feeling on face, incoherence and irrelevance in speech, movements of foot and arms , slow in movement when in proximity ,avoiding talking in presence of concerned all indicates attraction and love.

    but seriously think about relationship because liking is not enough, you need interpersonal understanding and real life experience, knowledge more than simple attraction .

    1. Absolutely. But a relationship goes through various stages and that’s the second step. The 9 Stages of a Relationship
      Every relationship starts with attraction, but if that’s the only thing that’s holding the two together, then it’s time to think again. ;)

    1. Oh congratulations dear.. may be she is… spend time with her, drop hints, drop hints to her friends… hopefully ur doubts will be resolved. :)

  6. Hi,
    My name is Hari and I work in a MNC. I have few questions for which I need answers at the earliest.
    1. How I can approach a girl who sees me in a public place ? After confirming that she indeed sees me can I wave my hand at her saying “hi” or should I resort to starting a small conversation with her as mentioned in the website ?

    2. While ending a conversation with a girl who I have just met and who likes me can I say that ” it was pleasure taking to you. How can I stay in touch with you” ? If a girl who really likes you will she give her number ? If not can I say “Here is my number and feel free to contact me ” ? Which one is a better approach .

    Request you to please clarify at the earliest.



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