In Search of True Love…

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Hey there! A big Hello to all of you. More than a year (and a whole marriage-read on for more about that!) later, I’m finally back to the blogosphere again!

It’s surely a special feeling to be talking to you after such a long time! I’m sure you’ve missed me, and you have no idea how much I’ve missed you. :(

So what should I start with? Yes I know, it doesn’t need telling – surely you want to know what I have been up to.

I have been up to finding love. Cheesy? Not. And that’s what I want to share with you today.

What is love?

I was striving hard to put my feelings about love into word, when I found this great post, which felt a bit like the transcript of my heart speaking –

“Love is a force of nature. However much we may want to, we can not command, demand, or disappear love, any more than we can command the moon and the stars and the wind and the rain to come and go according to our whims. We may have some limited ability to change the weather, but we do so at the risk of upsetting an ecological balance we don’t fully understand. Similarly, we can stage a seduction or mount a courtship, but the result is more likely to be infatuation, or two illusions dancing together, than love.”


Shubho & Sulagna in MauritiusThat’s me and him. (Ok. Dumb.)

That pretty much sums up what I always believed-love happens. (Oh yes I’m an incurable romantic!) I had promised myself never to get hitched until I felt “this is the best thing in the world that could happen to me”. For me, that was the litmus test of true love.

Introducing Mr…

So here I was, napping my days away happily at home after finishing business school, when Mr. Cool pinged me. Now I know you’re not gonna believe this, but that very moment I knew. I knew that the guy I have secretly fancied for two years but never managed to talk to, was finally mine forever. ;)
I drowned, headfirst.

For the uninitiated-the first days of love is like a full-time job. Once hired, you just aren’t allowed to concentrate on anything else. So I stopped functioning.(Really!!) It was a sweep-you-off-your-feet-and-end-your-thought-process all-encompassing obsession. Naturally. ;) So your favourite web destination took a backseat. (I’m sorry. I mean it.)

To cut long story short, here we were, about a year later….


Shubho & Sulagna weddingThe Wedding!

And now that’s 6 months old too. Armed with the experience of a nerve-racking ecstatic-devastating courtship & an even more colourful 6 months of marriage, I thought it’s time to get back to my half-forgotten love-child, Love in India.

I’m sure you can imagine how excited I am to be back. I hope you are, too!

To being back & meeting my friends (you) again. See you tomorrow.

403 thoughts on “In Search of True Love…”

  1. The early parts of the passage reminded me a quote in Danny Boyle’s The Beach.

    “When you develop an infatuation for someone you always find a reason to believe that this is exactly the person for you. It doesn’t need to be a good reason. Taking photographs of the night sky, for example. Now, in the long run, that’s just the kind of dumb, irritating habit that would cause you to split up. But in the haze of infatuation, it’s just what you’ve been searching for all these years. ”

    And good to hear your story. I hope everything stays the same. Goodl uck

  2. The early parts of the passage reminded me a quote in Danny Boyle’s The Beach.

    “When you develop an infatuation for someone you always find a reason to believe that this is exactly the person for you. It doesn’t need to be a good reason. Taking photographs of the night sky, for example. Now, in the long run, that’s just the kind of dumb, irritating habit that would cause you to split up. But in the haze of infatuation, it’s just what you’ve been searching for all these years. ”

    And good to hear your story. I hope everything stays the same. Good luck

    1. Very insightful quote, Nevin. In the end it’s not common interests or heady attraction which keeps you together, it’s affection & care for each other, which enables you to look beyond the immediate even when the initial attraction has worn out.
      Thanks for commenting. :)

  3. hi friends
    I’m very lonely and in search of a true friend. Do let me know if you have any suggestions for finding meaningful people in my life.
    Vivek

    1. Do you talk online? It’s a great way to connect for people with limited opportunities for socializing.
      Try flirting online. Check this for some tips on this: How to Flirt with a Girl – 5 Rules for Flirting with Indian Girls

      In addition I want you to remember the following:

      Women want men, not boys.

      Be someone you can respect, feel proud of who you are and show it. In short,be confident and deserve it. That’s the basic tenet of getting any girl to like you. Here are some tips to help you out:

      How to Impress a Girl into Liking You: 6 Tips
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      Let me know how things go. :)

    1. Hye dear,
      I am shalu.aur mai ek sacche lifepartner ki talash me hu but mujhe samajh ni aa rha ki kaise hoga ye sab meri mumma roj bhagvan se meri life ek brahman raja ko bhejne ko kehti h.mujhe ek braan ladke ki talash h

    1. Hi, Falak aap kaha se main ek ladki ko apne bachpan se chahta hu ab uske ghar wale uski ShaDi kahi aur kr rahe main puri tarah tut chuka mujhe ek sache dost ki Talash hai kya aap meri Dost banogi, my contact numb 08439015026

    2. hi this is Arshad,i m also searching for a true love..jo mujh se pyaar kare gi sifr mujh par fida ho….mai ous ko jaan se pyaar karo ga

  4. Mera ek bf tha. Jise maine anjane me dhoka de diya, wo rota raha or mai, maine ek bar bhi ni socha ki us par kya beeti hogi. Mujhe ehsas hua or galti sudharne k liy use cntact krne ki bht koshish ki. Usne lov mariage krli taki mujhe feel kra paaye ki maine kya kiya tha uske sath . . . Mai bht pyar krti hu uski soch or usse kyuki wo true tha apni jagah. Kya koi h jo mujhe itna love kare ki mai use bhul jaau? Aisa lover jise meri body ni. Mujhse pyar ho. Meri soch se pyar ho. To cntact kare. Teju.gupta.353 facebook par

      1. hii priya ap. ki story sun.ke dukh hua, janti ho.jab.koi apna khas pas hota h..to.use uski ahmiyat nho.pta chalta but jb vhi.dur ho.jata h. to uski kmi.mehsus hota h. ap ki tar ho.mrra bhi hal tha… vo mukhe love to..karti h. kbhi.kehti.h..ki amele rhu gi… kbho mujhe nhi.samjhi.ki.mai kya chahta hu… ab vo mujhse bat nhi.karti…kya ap meri frend bno.go.saud mere dard ko ap samjhe plz dost achha dost..

        1. mai bhi aap ki tarah apna pyaar kho chuka hu plz aap mera dard ko samajh sakti ho plz mujhe apna friend bana k mere pyaar ka dard dur kar do see you by

      2. hai, priya mai saurav tiwari MP se hu age 24 hai. mai reliance me job karta hu aur mujhe true love ki jaroorat hai kya aap mera true love banoge. my contact no. is 09754725251

      3. mujhe ek true love ki jaroorat hai. agar koi sacchi ladki long time love karna chahti hai to contect me…………..9754725251

      4. Hiiii !! I m anurag choudhury .. I m from Gauhati .. I want a true love relationship … Age 18-20 …

      5. Jo kisi ko pyar krta h vo dokha nhi deta h. vo to uske hr chijo ka khyal rkhta h..aur sirf ,aur sirf use pyar krta h..jo uske sath puri jindgi aur hr lmha jine k liye taiyar hoti h… So Please my dear friends, Don’t cheat this type of person….

      6. Hi, Priya mai Raj hu mai sirf itna kahna chahta hu ki tumne Jise dhoka diya usse ek bar fir mafi mag lo sayd vo tumhe maf kr de…Aur apne life me aage bdo.mai tumhe btana chahta hu ki mujhe v ek Priya nam ki hi ldki ne khoka diya tha.aur uski shadi ho gai….

    1. priya aap ki story maine read kiya………… aapse galti to hui per is baat ka aapko ahsaas bhi hai. mai to is dard ko jhela hai, qki meri girlfriend ne mujhe dhoke me rakha. aur dhoka diya… isme meri galti thi ki maine uski baato ko khud se jada true samjha jiska usne faida uthaya. per mai yahi samajhta hu ki ek din mujhe bhi saccha pyar milega. priya ahar aapko carefull love sachmujh karna hai to kya apan ek acche dosti se ye suruaat kar sakte hai . reply dena my contect – 09754725251

    2. Maine tumhari surt to nahi deha magar nam ki tarh tum sundar hogi plese muhe is nabar pe caal karna 7566427232

    3. I am Rajkishor I read & understand your atory agar app bura na mane to kya aap humse dosti karna cahenge mera fb id hai rajkishorraj22@ gmail.com

    4. Hii
      Hii priya mere koi gf nahi hai kya aap meri gf bnogy me aapko bahut pyar karunga aapko aapke sare dukh bhula dunga promis priya

    5. Hii
      Hii priya mere koi gf nahi hai kya aap meri gf bnogy me aapko bahut pyar karunga aapko aapke sare dukh bhula dunga promis priya mera whatsp nm 7720997597

    6. Meri bhi ek gf thi mai usse bahut pyar karta tha . par usne mujhe dhokha de diya.
      I am your Truelove but I am 18year.

  5. i love Rajani mahor (Pragya)
    my contact no is
    & she also loves me but why she doesn’t express ……………..

  6. Mara ko ak aache se ladki chaheya Jo humko bhaut pyar kara lakin wooo apna Sara problem hum par chor da ma dil ar dimag dono sa kam Lata hu .

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  7. बिन कुछ कहे बिन कुछ सुने चार कदम बस चार कदम चलदो न साथ मेरे।

  8. nice true story priya ji …… kyuki abi same apki story ki tra hi chal rha hai meri life mai bi …. bahut taras ata hai mujhe uspe or shayd spne bahut barhi galti karti ab apni vesa pyar karne vala ni mulle ga jesa ap chahti hai ….. anyways contect rinku771 facebook

  9. Main kya bolu Mere sath kya hua hai hai bas sabr kar raha hu aur allah se dua kar raha hu ki mujhe koi accha sathi mil jay maine life mai bahot taklif uthai jisske liye sab kuch chood diya wo mujhe chood k chala gaya aur jada nahi bol sakta aankho main ansu aa jate hai.plz meri koi help kare allah usko bahot khusi dega.

  10. Main kya bolu Mere sath kya hua hai hai bas sabr kar raha hu aur allah se dua kar raha hu ki mujhe koi accha sathi mil jay maine life mai bahot taklif uthai jisske liye sab kuch chood diya wo mujhe chood k chala gaya aur jada nahi bol sakta aankho main ansu aa jate hai.plz meri koi help kare allah usko bahot khusi dega. My no.

  11. me suis amusée à réaliser un classement des écoles de kiné en Belgique, pour voir lesquelles accueillent le plus d’étudiants non résidents pour cette année 2013 2014. J’avais fait la même chose l’année précédente et beaucoup me demandaient les chiffres pour cette nouvelle année

  12. mai ek sachche girlfried ki chahat jo meri har ak bat ko samjhe aur apni sari bate bhi mujhase sare kare
    jay hind jay bharat

  13. hiii !! I m anurag choudhury .. I want a Assamese girl of Gauhati area … I want a serious relation …

  14. mai sache pyar ki talash kr rha hu bhagwan kare wo mujhe jaldi mile jo mere liye is duniya me aayi hai

  15. hey
    I always get true fri in my life
    Bt never get true love
    Becuse of my crush
    bt now i waana truelove
    Who understnd me….

  16. Prem sangun hott nshtee,,,,
    hrudyachya sspndnanaa pashun manala tyachi odhk hott ashte,,,
    jrr khrr krall prem kunavrr tr tyala aaushya bhar sath deshil ka mhnyachi garaj nshte,,,,
    bcozz in love there is no any condition,,,,
    i miss my love,,,,,,,can any1 fulfill D need of her in my life,,,,,age limit for girl 18 To 19

  17. i am singal ,ek asi jo modling tipe ki par dil ki achhi ho smart na ho ya na koi fark nhi ,buttyful ho ya na koi fark nhi pr dil ki achhi .

  18. me bhi ek same nam ke ladke se pyar kare the ho par vo mare pyar ko kabhi samj nai sakta.or Jo mujhe pasad nai vo use pasad he.or me kya karu.I don’t no.kya me use pyar karte hu uske vaje se use Jo chahyu kya de do.
    plz mujhe koi idea do.
    .I request plz

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  21. hi friends
    I’m very lonely and in search of a true friend. Do let me know if you have any suggestions for finding meaningful people in my life.
    I waiting for u…..just true love
    7278590480

  22. Ek sweet simple ladki… jo sirf mere liye bani ho or mai sirf uske liye…!!
    !!!! He Sweet girl I have to need…!!

    1. Ek sweet simple ladki… jo sirf mere liye bani ho or mai sirf uske liye…!!
      !!!! He Sweet girl I have to need…!!

      my no. 8962773353…!!

  23. Priya
    sun ke hame thoda bura to jarur laga
    Lekin thodi si galti to aap ki bhi thi
    aap ko Ese nahi.chhod nahi chhodna chaiye tha
    thodi uski bhi filling aap ko samj ni chaiye thi
    but ab to jo hona chaiye tha so Vo to ho hi chuke hai
    Vese ab aap ko bhi sochne ki.jarurat nahi hai
    ab aap bhi Bhul jao use
    Vo hi thik rahega aap ke liye

    1. Hiiii………….
      myself Aditya sharma l m 19 year old & now pursuing B.tech 3rd year & my specelization is ME

  24. Well if any girl is looking for true love and marriage u can u call me or buzz me 08147516135 I am 27yrs and caste doest matter

  25. me ek atchi girl friend chati hu. . mujhe samjne wali, mera khyal rakhne wali, kuch bhi kam karne se pehle mujye yaad kare aur puchkar kam kare. . .

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